The road to fatherhood isn’t always easy, and it can feel scary and isolating if things aren’t going the way you planned. Positive examples of the various ways you can build a family—and advice from people who understand—can be really helpful on this journey.
Here are five of our favourite fatherhood accounts that offer just that.
Who to Follow if You’re Considering Surrogacy – Two Dads
Michael and Wes became dads to their two children thanks to surrogacy—and now they are on a mission to help other intended parents do the same. Their account gives an uplifting peek into family life following the surrogacy process and is one of many examples of how LGBTQ+ couples can become parents and raise a beautiful family.
The pair also run My Surrogacy Journey, which offers expert advice on all things surrogacy—from optimising sperm health to finding a surrogate and navigating the legal process depending on where you live. Whether you’re just starting to consider surrogacy or are ready to embark on the journey, give these guys a follow!
Who to Follow for Relatable Content and Community – Shaun
It’s not always easy for men to talk about fertility and the struggles that can arise on the road to fatherhood, but Shaun’s account and online community Knackered Knackers is a safe space for men to do just that.
Shaun became a father through sperm donation after being diagnosed with azoospermia, likely caused by mumps in his early twenties. He is now the proud father of two children after going through IVF with donor sperm. His page is an honest account of the good, the bad, and the ugly—but it’s also a great source of hope for anyone facing fertility struggles.
If you are considering sperm donation or looking for honest support, Shaun’s page is worth following. You can also check out his male fertility advice here.
Who to Follow to Put a Smile on Your Face – Jon
Humour is a powerful tool for bringing men into the fertility conversation—and Jon Summers, aka Infertility Man, has it in spades!
After cancer treatment left Jon infertile, he accepted he might never become a father. Years later, he met his partner Laura, and together they embarked on a mission to have a baby—sharing their journey openly to help end stigma around infertility.
Their honest and hilarious posts have earned a large following, showing that laughter and vulnerability can coexist. Their efforts ultimately led to the birth of their daughter after multiple rounds of IVF.
From comic-style illustrations to funny video content, Jon tackles serious topics with heart and humour. You can watch our recent interview with Jon here.
Who to Follow for Fitness Advice – Ciaran
There are many health and fitness influencers online—but few understand fertility struggles like Ciaran Hannington.
After finding out he had a severely low sperm count, doctors told him it was unlikely he’d ever have biological children. Refusing to give up, Ciaran overhauled his diet and committed to a regular exercise routine, which led to incredible results—he’s now a proud father of two.
On his page, Ciaran shares practical nutrition and fitness advice aimed at improving male fertility and offers motivation through his 1-to-1 coaching business, Humanity Health and Fitness. If you’re looking for guidance on a healthy lifestyle from someone who’s been there, Ciaran’s your guy.
Who to Follow to Learn More About Klinefelter Syndrome – Gareth
Klinefelter Syndrome is a rare genetic condition affecting men who have XXY chromosomes. It can reduce testosterone production and cause infertility, often leaving men feeling isolated and confused.
Gareth Landy, along with his friend Ryan Bregante, shares his story to combat shame and misinformation around Klinefelter Syndrome. Gareth is now a proud dad to twins conceived with donor sperm, and his account is full of family life in Ireland.
You can learn more about Gareth’s journey on our recent IGTV.
